Many smart and successful women spend a lot of time dating guys that don’t even like them. They will go to any length to keep this guy’s attention and interest, even if it lowers their own self-esteem. The problem is that people aren’t always as interested in us as we would like them to be.
Sadly, there is no way to wish someone into loving us or tricking them to enjoy our company. Sometimes women can even become obsessed with the object of their desire and it can descend into unhealthy behaviors that actually rob them of power and confidence. The good news is that you don’t have to put yourself in a situation where you go nuts over someone who doesn’t really like you.
The main thing to think about in this type of situation is whether it’s worth lowering your self-worth and dignity to chase some guy around. Sure it’s great to be loved and be in love but there is more to life than handing someone your heart in order to have it crushed. If you find yourself in a situation where you desperately long for someone but aren’t getting anything back you might want to reevaluate what you’re doing. Here are ten ways to tell if he’s really into you. Here are some of the qualities of a guy who really likes you.
- He’s there for you when you need him
- He wants to spend time with you.
- He doesn’t give you excuses for why he can’t be with you.
- He’s sad when he has to leave you.
- He cares about what you have to say.
- He isn’t just using you for sex.
- He listens carefully to what you have to say.
- He tells you he loves you.
- He includes you in his activities.
- He shows you off to friends and family.
If your significant other does these sort of things, you can be pretty sure that he really likes you. The whole point of having a boyfriend is that they make you feel great and enjoy being with you. No amount of wishing or subtle hinting will ever get someone to love you so it’s your job to make sure you hang out with guys that want to spend time with you.
Don’t waste your time with the guys who just lead you on, spend time with someone who really cares about you and you will avoid many of the headaches that come from chasing a guy who is not really into you. Always remember that you deserve to date someone who loves you and helps you feel great.
